Has your partner ever actually hurt or threatened to hurt you physically
or someone you care about?
Does your partner ever force you to engage in sexual activities that
make you uncomfortable?
Do you constantly worry about your partner's moods and change your
behavior to deal with them?
Does your partner try to control where you go, what you do and who you see?
Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs?
Have you stopped seeing family or friends to avoid your partner's
jealousy or anger?
Does your partner control your finances?
Does he/she threaten to kill him/herself if you leave?
Does your partner claim his/her temper is out of control due to alcohol,
drugs or because he/she had an abusive childhood?
If you answer yes to some or all of these questions,
you could be suffering abuse. Remember you are not to blame and you need
not face domestic violence alone.
How Common is Domestic Violence?
According to a National Violence Against Women Survey, 22% of women are
physically assaulted by a partner or a date during their lifetime and nearly
5.3 million partner victimizations occur each year among U.S. women ages 18
and older, resulting in 2 million injuries and 1,300 deaths.
Nearly 25% of women have been raped and/or physically assaulted by an
intimate partner during their lives.
15.4% of gay men, 11.4% of lesbians and 7.7% of heterosexual men
are assaulted by a date or intimate partner during their lives.
More than 1 million women and 371,000 men are stalked by partners
If you have questions about domestic violence, or need further information, you
can contact the Kalamazoo YWCA at (269) 385-2869
NOTE: This information comes from the American Psychiatric Association, 2005